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Fred Flare: All Cute in One Location

Sunday, January 24th, 2010 by Theresa Giannetti

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By Theresa Giannetti

While I’ve never been to the actual Fred Flare store (above, located in Greenpoint, Brooklyn, at 131 Meserole Avenue at Leonard Street), I’ve most certainly bought things through their website. A mishmash of eccentricity, fredflare.com is the perfect place to find a gift so right that it’s almost tailored to fit– of course, I wouldn’t buy something for my father there, but if you’re looking for a present for a young (or young at heart) friend, Fred Flare is the place to go.

They even separate out themed items based on holidays; for instance, they have an adorable Valentine’s Day section with tons of items of wildly varying prices, from Spanish Sweethearts candies at $2 to an $150 leather jacket and everywhere in between (*cough* clueless boyfriends *cough*).

Most of the prices are very reasonable for young people on a budget or a mother looking to supplement her daughter’s Valentine’s Day gift (yes, mom, that was a hint).

From dresses to makeup to jewelry to books, Fred Flare’s got you covered for every present-giving holiday of the year (and if you sign up for the emails, they even give you tons of coupons and discounts).

Go to www.fredflare.com

Theresa recommends:

For Men:

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Crosley USB Tech Turntable
$129

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Mo’s Bacon Bar
$9

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500XL Giant Earbud Speakers
$60

For Women:

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Gingham “I Heart You” Dress
$54

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Simply Perfect Sling Bag
$20

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Sweet Nothing Heart Necklace
9 different styles, $44

Woman Around Town: Edes Gilbert—Educator Gives Back

Sunday, January 17th, 2010 by Charlene Giannetti

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By Charlene Giannetti

Edes Gilbert spent fifteen years as headmistress of the prestigious Spence School, a community that includes many famous and influential graduates and parents. She has never forgotten, however, where she started out—teaching third grade in a public school. Since her retirement in 1998, Gilbert has dedicated herself to closing the gap between private and public education. “I’ve been so fortunate and the independent school world has been so good to me, I feel that the way I can give back is to work with public education, especially because I believe in closing this gap.”

edes-gBesides serving as a consultant to independent schools around the country, Gilbert devotes considerable time volunteering with Teach for America, the program that places recent college graduates as teachers in public schools. She also is on the board of the Theater Development Fund, helping to make culture affordable for public school students as part of building audiences for theater and dance.

“I’m really interested in public education where I started my own career, but what I’m intrigued about now is how teaching has changed,” she says. “I’m seeing it in the classroom in the South Bronx, Queens, and Brooklyn. Content is no longer king. When you are dealing with children whose reading levels have such a wide range, you can’t start with the first grade reader. So how do you close the achievement gap? Until we figure this out, we’re crippling ourselves. So I’m very committed to that in terms of time.”

Gilbert’s depth and breadth of experience provides her with a unique perspective. While some educators lament the state of public education in the city, Gilbert is decidedly upbeat. “Actually New York City is one of the most advanced in terms of educational reform, but, of course, you never hear about all the good stuff; you hear the bad stuff,” she says, noting that Mayor Michael Bloomberg and Schools Chancellor Joel Stein are committed to the best possible education for all students. Through the Teach for America program, the city each year brings in young teachers who have “energy and a commitment to the kids.” This year, 35,000 college seniors applied for 3,500 spots in the national Teach for America program, including 11 percent of the graduating class at Harvard. “What these young teachers are doing is raising expectations, and that is a huge part of effective reform,” she says.

The benefits of Teach for America flow both ways. “The other side of this is the rising feeling of idealism,” she says. “Young people want to do something outside themselves. For many years, that idealism has not been there. Kids were more cynical.” Although a tight job market has undoubtedly pushed many kids into public service, others have been inspired by President Obama who speaks out about the importance of giving back. “It’s a good thing for our country to have young people committed to service of some kind.”

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Gilbert first got involved with the Theater Development Fund while at Spence because the group, that runs the three TKTS booths in the city, provides affordable theater tickets for teachers. In all the schools, the organization brings together public school students with theater professionals. “High school students apply for an amazing opportunity to work with people like Meryl Streep and Frank Rich, who sponsor them, take them to the theater, and have conversations with them afterwards,” she says.

Gilbert’s expertise on independent schools takes her all over the country consulting on governance and strategic planning. Right now she is working with schools in Memphis and Philadelphia as well as New York City. The recession has affected most independent schools, but Gilbert feels the feelings in New York are more intense. “If the country has a cold we have pneumonia,” she says. In general she feels annual giving among independent schools is holding up pretty well, down maybe 8 to 10 percent, but that many capital campaigns have been postponed.

One day we meet to chat over tea at the Cosmopolitan Club. Gilbert has just come from a panel discussion on violence against women organized by the Wellesley Center for Women and held at the Yale Club. The topic obviously touched a nerve. “We have to teach girls to take care of themselves,” she says. Despite parental concerns about pedophiles stalking young people on the web, she notes, “Sexual violence is much more apt to come from people that they know.” Hardly a year would go by at Spence, she says, where there wasn’t an issue of violence against a student. A major challenge was building trust with the girls so they would feel comfortable talking to a teacher or someone with the school’s administration. Under the law Gilbert was required to report such instances. “I was impressed with the social services in New York,” she says. “They saw the family within 24 hours and sometimes, if appropriate, they would even remove the girl from the home temporarily.”

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During her tenure at Spence, Gilbert became concerned with a culture that was becoming increasingly toxic, sending harmful messages to young girls. “Teen girls want to get attention but for a girl’s first sexual experience to be oral sex is sad.” She found parents often felt overwhelmed and helpless. She recalls speaking to a group of parents in the mid-90s about oral sex. “Parents didn’t have the vocabulary to talk to their children,” she says. “A number of them came up afterwards and said, `can I quote you?’”

As a member of the board of trustees for Parents in Action, Gilbert continues to raise the alarm. She feels that the sexually-charged culture is pushing girls to become sexual at younger and younger ages, hoping to attract the attention they want and need. “Girls at home doing homework are interested in getting the attention of the boys, so they `sext,’” she says, the shorthand for sending suggestive e-mails and photos. The girl will send a picture on her cell, perhaps one flashing her breasts, and in 10 minutes it’s all over the school. “She’s gotten herself into a situation she can’t control.”

edes-headshotGilbert is a major proponent of media literacy teaching children how to watch TV programs, movies, music videos, and other forms of entertainment with a critical eye. While many educators advise that young people not watch the Bravo reality series, NYC Prep, about private school kids in Manhattan, Gilbert’s attitude is to confront the issue head on. “I would have brought the TV in the classroom and watched with the students,” she says. “What a great way to teach boys and girls about the misuse of the medium that we have.”

Grandparents now play a greater role in their grandchildren’s lives (Gilbert herself is a grandmother), and she would like to see schools include them in a more meaningful way. “Seventy percent of grandparents are involved in their grandchildren’s lives, many as caretakers, as well as contributors to tuition,” she says. “We grandparents are younger than we used to be. And being one generation removed gives us a perspective on education and the value of it.” Rather than only inviting grandparents to a special day at school, Gilbert suggests a more personal connection such as a photo of the grandchild with a handwritten note from the teacher.

Gilbert credits her viewpoint as an educator for helping her raise her children, two sons and a daughter. “I learned by being a teacher how to construct their lives,” she said. “Punishment was not a part of our family life. There were consequences. I was a single mom with three children. If you didn’t do your laundry, there were no clean clothes. If you needed to have your sheets changed you needed to strip your bed.”

Growing up in Brooklyn Heights, Gilbert graduated from Vassar College. After teaching at a boys’ school near Boston, she became head of an all girls’ school in St. Louis. She became headmistress at Spence in 1983.

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Gilbert is making up for lost time by traveling whenever she gets the opportunity. “You can’t be head of the school and travel widely,” she says. She enjoys the summer months in Maine and time in Florida during the winter. During the recent holiday vacation, she relaxed with her family in Costa Rica. “It’s such a great time of life,” she says.

Every now and then, Gilbert runs into a former student who will remember a class Gilbert taught or a talk she gave. She’s kept all her chapel talks from her time in St. Louis, her favorite one described a tide pool she saw on the coast of Maine. “We all live in that tide pool, ” she says. “I will still have girls ask me, `Remember when you talked about that tide pool?’” She laughs. “That’s when you know you’ve gotten into people’s lives, and isn’t that what we want to do?”

For more information, got to her website, www.edesgilbertconsulting.com

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Edes Gilbert in her office, top two.
Edees Gilbert with her family on Boxing Day in Portsmouth, NH, from left, son, Tim, his wife, Amy, their children, Clayton, Talcott, and Wilson, Brian and Sarah Kilcommons, Edes’ daughter and son-in-law
Edees with her son, Tim, in Maine
Edees reading with her grandson, Clayton

Woman Around Town’s Six Questions

Favorite Place to Eat: Gramercy Tavern
Favorite Place to Shop: Babette, 137 Greene Street
Favorite New York Sight: The skyline at night when I come from La Guardia or JFK after dark.
Favorite New York Moment: Going to concert at Carnegie Hall and then to Petrossian for cold white wine and smoked salmon.
What You Love about New York: The variety of people, music, art, and accessibility to it all. It energizes me on a daily basis.
What You Hate about New York: The traffic on a rainy Friday afternoon and the disappearing cabs between 4 and 6:30 every day.

Woman Around Town: Magee Hickey—On the Scene

Sunday, December 13th, 2009 by Stephanie Russell-Kraft

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By Stephanie Russell-Kraft

Magee Hickey, a reporter for WCBS-TV in New York, is such a busy Woman Around Town that we have difficulty even finding time for her interview. Several attempts to meet for lunch are cut short by stories breaking elsewhere in the city. At the earliest hours of the day, the New York native can be found covering news developments in all corners of the five boroughs, connecting with the myriad lives she encounters. And after thirty years in the industry, she remains captivated by her work.

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Each day, Magee calls the station around 2:30 a.m., as she’s having her bowl of Special K with strawberries, to learn about her assignment. “I call in and say, `What’s it gonna be? What’s my story?’ and it’s generally something that’s happened between 11 and 2:30 in the morning. A fire, a shooting, something that I can’t have prepared for,” she explains. “It’s different every day, [and] that’s the most important thing. I’m at a different location, facing a different challenge. I could never do a job where you go to the same office every day.” It’s a demanding job, but Magee seems to thrive from it.

little-baby-face-foundationAfter some schedule maneuvering, I finally get a chance to catch up with Magee on a Thursday evening benefit for the Little Baby Face Foundation, a non-profit organization dedicated to providing interdisciplinary medical care and surgery for children born with facial deformities around the globe. Although Magee has been awake and working since 2:00 that morning, she arrives at the benefit full of energy, looking polished in a chic black dress and gold belt. Within moments of greeting me, she begins to sing praises of the organization, introducing me to the president and his wife and making sure I’m taking notes as we go. It’s clear to me right away that this quintessential vivacious redhead is in the right business. She’s not there to promote herself in any way. Rather, her focus is on the people surrounding her—on uncovering and connecting their stories with her own questions.

Magee, who was born in Brooklyn but raised on the Upper East Side, grew up in what she describes as a “very interesting” family, characterized by an eclectic mix of show-biz and community service. Her mother was an actress, and Magee became interested in theater at a very early age. However, while she was an undergraduate at Brown University, she began to doubt her future in both the acting and music industries. After a professor noticed her propensity for asking questions, he encouraged her to try working in the television news industry.

“The minute I walked into a news room—I was an intern in Providence, Rhode Island my junior year in college—I just loved it,” she explains, glowing. “And from then on I just worked hard to get jobs in TV news.” She tells me later that she was drawn to the field by her “curiosity about people,” adding that “if you’re a person who asks a lot of questions, journalism is the field for you.”

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At the Little Baby Face Foundation benefit, Magee chats with other guests about the organization itself, about season three of Mad Men, and about the merits of voice control. She explains that her goal, when reporting, is usually to keep her voice low, to keep it musical and soothing for her audience at 5 a.m. Her aim is not to change her voice, but to relax it.

When the conversation turns to signing, Magee explains that, despite her high-profile profession, her biggest fear is singing into a microphone in front of an audience. For this reason, she tells the group, she’s enrolled in an evening cabaret class. Not only does she want to conquer her fears and learn “how to sing,” but she hopes to perform a few songs at her father’s birthday party in the spring. She tells me, “My husband was confused, he says, ‘We’ve been married for 26 years. I know you’re scared of singing. I can’t believe you’re doing this!’”

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Nonetheless, she’s committed to the course, and plans to sing three Cole Porter songs at her class’s live performance on January 16th at the Don’t Tell Mama cabaret club in Manhattan, alongside the eight other students in the course. “The other seven are singers,” she admits, “with big voices… and then there’s me, with a little voice.” She smiles.

Kate Sullivan, a morning news anchor at WCBS-TV, takes a moment to praise Magee while she’s in conversation with another benefit attendee.”Isn’t she incredible?” she asks me. Before I can nod in return, she continues, “What’s so great about Magee is that she supports people, she’ll introduce everyone to everyone, kind of playing a public relations role.”

The two women start to look tired (and I don’t blame them) as they discuss the merits of their 5 a.m. call times and their lives on morning television. I’m still surprised that they have enough energy to even be here.

“How do you do it?” I ask incredulously.

“Oh, you just do it. And you actually get used to it, don’t you?” Magee answers, looking at Kate for confirmation.

“No,” she laughs, suddenly looking just as incredulous as I.

magee-headshot2When we finally get the chance to sit down and talk in depth about Magee’s life as a reporter, I’m curious to hear about her experiences as a woman claiming her stake in the industry over the past thirty years. Within one hour of knowing her, I’ve already come to admire her strength, and I’m eager to learn more.

Although she’s never faced explicit discrimination as a woman, she does admit that she’s always faced challenges in the field.

“There was a job I applied for at a radio station in Providence Rhode Island, I was a senior in college,” she tells me. “And they couldn’t believe that I really wanted to do this as a career, full time. They were sort of more old-fashioned men. They sort of viewed it as ‘oh I’m gonna do this until I get married.’ And I was so gung ho that it never occurred to me that after marriage I wouldn’t be working just as hard. But there was always a sense that this is something you do until you find something better…”

“And then I remember when I was at Channel 4 and I told the news director I was expecting my first child, people actually asked me—and this was 1987—if I was going to work after I had my child. And I was so shocked by that question. ‘Of course I’m going to work! This is my career! I’m going to be a mother, and I’m going to be a TV reporter….’ It never occurred to me that it’s one or the other,” she explains. And yet she never saw any of these expectations as obstacles. “I think the biggest obstacles I’ve ever faced are my own, my lack of self confidence, and just pushing myself to be more aggressive, and being surer of myself.”

Magee’s always been her own toughest critic, pushing herself to uncover the most that she can about her city and its people. When I ask her which stories have affected her most over the years, she tells me about the killing of John Lennon and the various murder trials she’s covered. But then she pauses, adding, “Every story affects me. If it doesn’t affect me there’s something wrong with the way I’m doing the story. At one point I was covering the aftermath of a fatal fire in Crown Heights Brooklyn, where a stay-at-home dad died and his two year old and his one year old died in a fire. He didn’t call 911, he had been burning incense, the mattress caught on fire… the police and fire department came, but they went to the wrong address first, because it was called in at a different intersection….” She slows down. “It all affects me. I think about that man. But that’s what I love about the job, it’s about life.”

And what better city than New York to teach you about life? Magee explains that while she began her career in television reporting while finishing college in Rhode Island, she was eager to get back to her home city as soon as she graduated. She elaborates, “The typical career path was for me to go to a medium sized market and work my way up to New York. And I was impatient. I wanted to come to New York. I didn’t want to get to know another city. I loved Providence, but it was time to come back to New York. My boyfriend at the time was here (and I knew I was going to marry him), my parents were here, my two sisters, my brother, all of my childhood friends. And I wanted to get to know the city.” Her eyes widen as she reflects on the years she’s spent both growing up and living in New York.

“To me, the greatest thing about my job is getting to know the city,” she continues with child-like enthusiasm, “and going to parts of the city that I don’t know. I can tell you the best places in the city to get breakfast,” she chuckles, and stops briefly to collect her thoughts. “All of that is really the best part, that I really know New York. And [at the same time] you can never know New York well enough, there’s always so much more to be learned.”

Woman Around Town’s Six Questions

Favorite Place to Shop: (And I am quite a shopaholic!) are Topshop on Broadway in Soho and the Pookie and Sebastian boutiques throughout the city… but particularly the one on 78th Street and Second Avenue.
Favorite Place to Eat:
There are so many. One was Hacienda de Argentina on East 75th Street, but it recently shut down. I’m hoping it will reopen soon. I also love Amber, an Asian fusion restaurant on Third Avenue and 80th Street, and I love Blue Smoke in the East 20s. Right now, I’m trying out a hot and trendy restaurant on the Lower East Side, called Marfa, where my niece Meg Lavin is a waitress extraordinaire.
Favorite New York Sight:
The Brooklyn Bridge. I love the look of it, and knowing that my ancestors helped build it. I get a thrill going to Brooklyn. At least four generations on both sides of my family lived in Brooklyn and I feel closer to my roots and personal history there.
Favorite New York Moment:
I love New York in the early morning hours. On the shift that I work on at CBS 2, I am up at work before the sun rises. And there are often these glorious moments when I watch the city wake up slowly. I love being on the Brooklyn Heights promenade and watching the day start.
What You Love About New York:
The people, our spirit, resilience and plucky personalities. Practically everyone’s a tough, independent character, tough on the outside but with a mushy heart on the inside. I also love going to movies in the daytime. The noon show at the Lincoln Plaza is always packed. I want to ask, who are these people, and how do they have time to go to movies in the middle of the day? I also love the courses at the 92nd Street Y. Right now, I am taking Cabaret and tap dancing. The teachers Collette Black and Norma Curley are fantastic and so are my classmates. I love that you can stumble your way into a class and find this wonderful community of soul mates.
What You Hate About New York:
How expensive everything is. I don’t want my life to be about making money and having money. I want it to be about something so much more spiritually rewarding. I am very aware in my job about how so many people have so much less than I have… so the inequity of life in New York is upsetting.

One Mile at a Time: Mandy Runs the NYC Marathon

Monday, November 2nd, 2009 by Kenley Ferrara

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By Kenley Ferrara

At 5:45 a.m. on marathon Sunday, Mandy Rubin embarked on the journey to completing her first marathon, the ING New York City Marathon. After being shuttled via Staten Island Ferry and official marathon bus to Fort Wadsworth, Mandy waited. And waited. And waited. Waiting for her 10:20 a.m. wave start “seems almost harder than running the actual marathon,” pottyMandy said.

The long line leading up to where runners must display their bib credentials moved quickly and Mandy made her way to her designated color zone. (In order to most efficiently usher runners across the start on time, New York Road Runners (NYRR) divides runners into three color zones and wave starts.)

She found a dry spot near a set of Port-O-Potty’s (which, believe it or not, is the best place to be marathon morning) and camped out until her wave start was called to the corrals. Bundled up in multiple layers, including a rain poncho, Mandy said, “I feel prepared. I have trained hard and well. I can just relax now.”

With the Verrazano-Narrows Bridge (VN Bridge) at her back, she posed for some pictures, standing tall with her hands on her hips. She was the epitome of a confident runner. On the way to the corrals, Mandy noticed a man inside of a miniature replica of the Eiffel Tower and others dressed up in Halloween costumes. They ran the 26.2 miles in their respective states. Mandy just laughed and said, “Wow, good for them!”

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The race began and Mandy pumped out a consistent and conservative pace over the VN Bridge, smiling as she looked to her left to see Manhattan, her final destination. “This is such a beautiful view,” she declared, not even daunted by the fact that she could see how incredibly far-off her finish line was.

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queensHer muscles warmed up and she cruised right into Brooklyn, taking in the loud cheers from the spectators. In Sunset Park, Brooklyn, Mandy sailed past “Eiffel Tower Man” and exclaimed, “One of my goals was to beat that building and I did. Now I just need to keep him behind me!”

Mandy’s goals changed throughout the past four-plus months of training for the big race. At first, she just wanted to survive the marathon. After she successfully finished the half-marathon, she began to set other goals. Close to race day, Mandy decided that finishing in under six hours was definitely doable. Upon passing the 13.1 mile mark, it became apparent that Mandy had broken her previous half-marathon time by almost thirty minutes, a huge accomplishment, which helped her press on into Queens.

The fifth layer of her clothing came off and as she tied the long-sleeved shirt around her waist she said, “Queens is hard.” Queens is hard. The Queensboro/59th Street Bridge (QB Bridge) is not only the highest elevation on the course but also comes at Mile 14. It was right around this point of the marathon when Mandy’s left knee took a huge hit from the bridge’s incline. Luckily, her husband, Scott and children, William (9) and Jaime (6) were waiting for her arrival at the end of the bridge. Mandy made it to her family with enough energy to give out hugs and kisses as well as pose for a quick picture. Seeing her family gave Mandy a high that carried her up First Avenue through Miles 17, 18 and 19.

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Upon entering the Bronx at Mile 20, the damage done to her left knee from crossing the QB Bridge slowed her down. Mandy realized that if she changed her stride, some of the discomfort was relieved. She powered on using this new strategy but found that the best thing to ease the pain was to stretch out the muscles around her knee joint. Once she did this, Mandy felt, “a Bengay-like sensation on my leg. It is a very weird feeling. Whatever is happening, it is working.”

finishThe mysterious feeling healed her just in time for viewing by her mother, her identical twin sister, brother-in-law, nieces and nephew at Mile 24 in Central Park. They screamed Mandy’s name and helped give her the push she needed to get to Mile 25 where she would see Scott, William and Jaime one last time. William jumped the fence with his #1 MOM sign in hand and asked if he could run with her to Mile 25 a few steps away. This request put a smile on her face and made 1.2 miles to the finish line seem easy.

Mandy powered her way to Columbus Circle and, as if the .2 miles uphill to the finish line did not phase her, Mandy had a huge surge in pace. “This is something I have wanted to do for over 20 years. It has been my dream. I am so happy I did this,” Mandy declared. Volunteers placed a finisher’s medal around her neck and a foil blanket around her shoulders. She made her way to the family reunion area, tired but incredibly content. The goal that started out as a dot in the distance from the VN Bridge hours ago was now a reality—Mandy is a Marathoner.

Kenley Ferrara is a certified personal trainer and running coach for Professional Personal Training Systems (PPTS) as well as a Pacer for Nike. Her website is www.pptswellness.com.

Week 1: I’m Not Looking for You to be Funny

Sunday, September 27th, 2009 by Anne Richmond

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By Anne Richmond

Woman Around Town’s Anne Richmond is attending an eight-week course on standup comedy at the Comic Strip and writing about her experience. This is her first installment.

Every one of us entered the classroom with some amount of trepidation. We all sat to the left of the small stage looking each other over and saying polite hellos. Our instructor, D. F. Sweedler, swept into the room carrying a glass of soda. He sat down and looked us over.

mike“We’re going to go over some rules,” he said. “Out in the world, you’ll see people break these, but for the purpose of this class, these are the rules.”

As he listed each rule, pens and pencils scrawled furiously across paper. Would we be funny? Who was the funniest? How much experience did everyone have? All of my questions were held at bay as I tried to get down everything he said.

“Don’t be dirty.”

“No swearing?” A tough looking blonde woman spoke up.

“Not in this class, no.”

“What if it… slips out? I’m from Brooklyn, so…” She insisted.

“Keep it clean.”

anne1Her comment reminded me of something I learned during an improv class at iO Chicago a few years ago. Some people think you have to be audacious to be funny, but it’s really about inviting someone into an idea and getting them on the same page. It’s about reminding people of things they don’t realize they already know. You don’t have to talk about sex or swear words to achieve universal comedy.

We also covered the ideas that feed comedy, like the rule of threes and the idea of a premise, or topic. D. F. patiently answered our questions about these concepts and all too soon we came to the end of the list.

Suddenly I realized that we hadn’t introduced ourselves. We’d been sitting in the room together for about an hour and a half and I had no idea who these other people were.

“Step on stage and introduce yourself. Tell us why you’re here and what it is you do. I’m not looking for you to be funny.” D. F. gave a wry smile and began sending us up on stage one by one.

While attending NYU’s Tisch School of the Arts, my fellow students were in my age range also looking for a career in the theater. The people in my comedy class were far more diverse in terms of ages and interests. They included a man had just dropped off his last kid at college, a school teacher (the Brooklyn blonde), an out-of-work lawyer, another young woman who had recently graduated and just moved to the city, and a guy who was retaking the class to develop more material.

comic-strip-logoFinally it was my turn to take the stage. My vision narrowed and it suddenly seemed as if there were twice as many tables and chairs to weed through in order to get to my destination. I also silently remembered my fear of public speaking.

I stepped up on the stage and felt my voice wobble in my throat. Don’t be funny, I told myself.

“I’m… Anne Richmond. I graduated from NYU Tisch with a B.F.A. in acting. I work two jobs; one in marketing for a gym and another at an Internet start-up company.” I felt the sudden urge to tell a joke but I stifled it with practiced monotone. “I write, produce, costume design, and act in a web series called O-Cast ©…” I trailed off. I wanted to be excited about who I was but I was afraid I would get derailed and make some strange joke, as I am prone to do. Still, I couldn’t shake the feeling that I was boring the other students with my introduction. All I wanted was a laugh or a smile, but everyone was just looking at me with mild interest and polite attention. “I’m here because I’ve always had an interest in stand-up and because I’m a writer for WomanAroundTown.com. I’m doing a weekly column on the class and my experience here.” I scanned the room and then looked down at my feet. “And… that’s me!” I fought the urge to do a “ba-dum-ch!” tap dance button and stepped down from the stage, trembling.

comic-strip“You’re a busy gal.” D. F. nodded as I took my seat.

“Yup.” I sighed, happy to be among my peers again. I wondered to myself why I hate being myself in the spotlight. I’ve always had a hard time with that even though I have no problem with doing plays or playing characters.

Chase the fear, I thought.

“For next week, I want one and a half to two minutes based on a premise. You will write it down and read it for us. Time it, but don’t perform it for your friends, or if you do, don’t listen to them. They don’t know what they’re talking about. Do not memorize it because we’ll get rid of most of it.”

Before I even realized how much time had passed, the class was over and everyone began collecting their things.

Two minutes couldn’t be that hard. However, as the week went on, I found myself thinking of ideas and writing them down, but avoiding any commitments to a topic. After a four day weekend on the set of O-Cast ©, it was Monday again and all I had was a smattering of empty ideas—shells of premises I had considered but none that I’d deepened or specified. I rushed to gather my thoughts on Monday morning and time my piece before work. During the day I kept returning to my note pad and editing my notes, finally deciding to focus on a joke about the complications of eating food at Max Brenner and a follow up joke about people on dates there and how women feel uncomfortable ordering a decadent chocolate meal in front of men. I made a few different versions of the piece and then finally set aside my pen, realizing I would only drive myself mad if I overworked it.

I had no idea if my writing would be funny at all, but I didn’t want to spend my time on fear or nerves.

I arrived at The Comic Strip just on time for class and before I knew it D. F. was calling my name.

“Anne.”

I had purposefully chosen a seat closer to the stage this time so as not to trip over myself or feel awkward trying to weave through the tables and chairs.

I stepped up onto the platform, took a deep breath, and began to read.

Anne Richmond is an actress, singer, and writer living in New York City. Armed with a BFA in Theater from New York University’s Tisch School of the Arts where she trained at the Playwrights Horizons Theater School and The Experimental Theater Wing, she continues to work in the theater and the burgeoning field of new media. She is a founding member of Box Full of Wasps Theater Collective and one of the creators of the upcoming webseries, O-Cast ©, a show which she also produces, costume designs, and performs in. (www.annerichmond.com, www.o-cast.com)

On the Waterfront: Photographs on the Edge

Friday, September 18th, 2009 by Woman Around Town

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The New York waterfront has been essential to the life of the city. It has also been the source of endless fascination for photographers, from Berenice Abbott in the 1930s and 1940s, up to Diane Cook’s most recent work. The Museum of the City of New York’s current exhibit “The Edge of New York: Waterfront Photographs,” provides a unique historical perspective, allowing us to view how the waterfront has changed, from a busy port supporting the city’s burgeoning manufacturing base, to a coastline that now supports a tourist industry.

Abbott bridge

The older photographs, culled from the museum’s impressive collection, seem almost claustrophobic, illustrating how an industrialized New York utilized every square inch of waterfront space. The more current photographs, by contrast, convey a sense of openness. We see baseball fields, parks and playgrounds, and piers renovated for civilian use. The waterfront is still essential to life in the city, but what we all draw from that shoreline has changed dramatically.

Robbins, fish

Abbott’s vintage prints, part of a project commissioned in 1935 by the museum and completed in 1939, vividly depict the working class atmosphere that once dominated the city’s waterfront. David Robbins photographs, have a documentary feel, showing the many occupations, including fishing, that once provided a source of livelihood for so many New Yorkers.

Cook Pepsi Sign

In their photos, Len Jenshel and Diane Cook explore over 500 miles of shoreline. They uncover neighborhoods that are now seeing a resurgence, Dumbo, Long Island City, Red Hook, and Fort Washington Park. While the scenes in the photos are devoid of people, in real life these new areas are being discovered and built up. New Yorkers understand that living in the city always involves finding new places to live. The waterfront area, with access to beautiful vistas, gives a sense of space, something city dwellers are drawn to. Living in a small apartment becomes more bearable with expansive city views.

Cook Lighthouse

The shoreline unites the city. Jenshel and Cook illustrate that point fully in their photos. From Carl Schurz Park on the Upper East Side to Battery Park City all the way downtown, everyone can enjoy the riverside. The West Side waterfront, still under renovation, already boasts a bike and walkway that attracts crowds of people every weekend. Other projects, such as the Brooklyn Bridge Park, that will run along the East River on the Brooklyn side, from the Manhattan Bridge to Atlantic Avenue, and Gantry State Park in Long Island City, are still underway.

New Yorkers continually reinvent themselves, from season to season, year to year. Then, it’s so fitting that our waterfront should reflect this chameleon-like character.

The Edge of New York: Waterfront Photographs
Curated by Sean Corcoran, curator of Prints and Photographs,
With the assistance of Autumn Nyiri, senior curatorial associate,
Susan Johnson, curatorial associate, and Joanna Steinberg, research intern.
Peter Buchanan Smith served as the exhibit’s graphic designer.

The exhibit will be on display through November 29
For more information, go to www.mcny.org

Photos:

1. Len Jenshel, Plymouth Street, Dumbo, Brooklyn

2. Berenice Abbott, Brooklyn Bridge with Pier 21, Pennsylvania Railroad

3. David Robbins, Fishermen with Nets

4. Len Jenshel, Pepsi Cola Sign, Queens West Deelopment, Long Island City, Queens

5. Diane Cook, Little Red Lighthouse, Fort Washington Park, Manhattan

Woman Around Town: Rosanna Scotto–Good Day New York

Sunday, August 30th, 2009 by Charlene Giannetti

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By Charlene Giannetti

Nothing is more competitive in New York than morning news where all the programs compete for viewers and the advertising dollars that follow. In this battle, a powerful weapon is needed. WNYW/FOX 5 now has that ingredient with Rosanna Scotto co-anchoring its Good Day New York broadcast. Early morning personalities have a challenging job. They must be authoritative, yet not too serious, cheerful without being saccharine. (After all, most of us watching have not had our morning coffee). Scotto manages this balance skillfully, shifting from a news interview with Senator Charles Schumer to a cooking segment with her co-host Greg Kelly. She’s the neighbor and good friend we all wish we had, and we can enjoy her company for three hours each day.

FOX 5’s broadcast distinguishes itself from the national morning shows like Good Morning America, and the Today Show by focusing on local news. “We want to be a good local station,” Scotto explains over lunch at her family’s restaurant, Fresco by Scotto. (Read our review under Dining Around). “What gets people angry?” When the MTA closed the 168th Street subway station turning a 30-minute commute into a three-hour one, people were plenty angry. And Good Day New York was there to cover the story. Scotto’s program also was out in front covering the debacle in the State Legislature. “We did a lot of stories about Albany when those clowns weren’t working,” she said.

Scotto made the switch to morning news nearly a year ago, after three years heading up FOX 5’s two nightly newscasts with anchor Ernie Anastos. “I love the format of the morning,” she says. “I love the people I work with, but I miss Ernie and Nick (Gregory, the evening weather anchor).” She confesses that she is still “not in synch” with her new schedule. Most nights she is in bed between nine and ten after laying out her clothes for the next day. In the morning, she gets up at four thirty, jumps in the shower, dresses without bothering about hair and makeup, and is in the studio by five. By the time she goes on the air at 7 a.m., Scotto has made her way through numerous papers, including the New York Times, New York Daily News, and New York Post. “When you go online, you don’t see those little sidebar stories,” she says, explaining why her early morning routine does not always include the Internet. “I read everything and then forget about it, but it’s in the back of my mind. It’s like homework.”

rosannaBeing an anchor on Good Day New York is demanding. “If you want to succeed in this business, you’d better be flexible,” she says. Scotto does most of her own research and writes a lot of her own copy. (The third hour of the program, from 9 a.m. to 10 a.m. is totally unscripted, something unheard of in television news). She’s always looking for that extra something, a tidbit other reporters may have overlooked. “If Education Chancellor Joel Klein is on tomorrow, what else can I ask him about?” she says. While her mind may be swimming with research, Scotto says she focuses on the answers in order to ask important follow-up questions.

When not on camera, she’s making calls to line up that next all-important interview. Her recent interviews on Good Day have included Alana Stewart, who spoke about her friend, Farrah Fawcett, Tilda Swinton, and Liza Minelli. (Her guest wish list includes Bill Clinton, Brad Pitt, and George Clooney). She says that 9/11 remains the event that had the greatest impact on her. “The day it happened, we were in the studio for hours,” she recalls. “The day after, we went down there. We were so emotional with what we saw. People helping, people looking for loved ones. It’s etched in my memory.”

Scotto was born and raised in Brooklyn, graduated from Packer Collegiate, and earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in 1977 from Catholic University in Washington, DC. “I studied theater, but I was always interested in TV,” she says. “Our family always watched TV news.”

In the 1970s, Rose Ann Scamardella, was anchoring WABC-TV’s Eyewitness News along with Anastos. (Scarmardella was the inspiration for Gilda Radner’s Rosanne Roseannadanna on Saturday Night Live). The two women grew up in the same Brooklyn neighborhood and Scotto considers Scarmardella one of her mentors. “I talked to her when I was in college and she introduced me to Ernie,” says Scotto. They went out to dinner and mapped out a strategy for Scotto’s future. “Once Rose Ann came on board I said, `this is something I want to do,’” she said. “I don’t like to wait; I like to get things done.”

After a stint at Ted Turner’s WTBS station in Atlanta, Scotto returned to New York in the 1980s, working as a segment producer for Regis Philbin’s Good Morning New York, which he then co-hosted with Cyndy Garvey. (The program later became the nationally syndicated Live with Regis and Kathie Lee). The producers allowed Scotto to do on air features recommending family getaways. In her off hours, she would venture over to Eyewitness News and “beg them to use me.” She was soon brought onboard as a reporter at Eyewitness News and remained there until she moved to FOX 5 in 1986.

A three-time Emmy Award winner, Scotto devotes time to many community events. It’s not unusual to find her dashing from the studio after what most people would consider a full day, to give the keynote address at a charity luncheon. In the New York circuit, getting Rosanna is a good “get.” And she is very generous with her time. A recent Sunday found her walking to raise money for lung cancer research. “My mother’s best friend died of lung cancer and so did my father-in-law,” she explains.

Scotto Family

Scotto says her husband, Louis Ruggiero, an attorney, her daughter, Jenna, a college student, and her son, LJ, a high school student, are delighted with her new schedule. “My family likes my being home at night,” she says. When she did the 5 p.m. and 10 p.m. broadcasts, Scotto says, “I would cook at 11 a.m., go to work, come home and do dinner, then go back to work.” While she always prepared meals, knowing she had to return to the station for another news hour meant she always felt rushed. Now she can relax when she dines with her family. “My kids love to come home and smell food cooking,” she says.

Rosanna says she would love to do a cooking show with her family, but nothing has proved to be the right fit so far. The Scotto family continues to do cooking segments on the rival Today Show, and Rosanna does cooking segments on Good Day New York. In the beginning, she says, her co-anchor, Greg Kelly was skeptical that she really cooked. “He came to my house and watched me and my sister in action,” she says with a laugh. “We did pizza on the grill, pasta and pesto, salmon in an Asian marinade, steak with olive oil and garlic, baked and broiled fruit, and lemon pound cake with gelato.” Needless to say, he’s now a believer.

There is a special camaraderie among early morning TV people. “One night in the Hamptons we had a casual barbeque,” says Scotto. “I saw people on the street and invited them—Howard Stern, Matt Lauer, and Katie Couric. We had alarm clock placemats and told war stories.” For the present, at least, Scotto is a member of this very elite club and will continue to do what she does best: wake up New Yorkers with the news.

Woman Around Town’s Six Questions

Favorite Place to Eat: Fresco by Scotto…my Mom is the best cook!
Favorite Place to Shop: Anywhere that is having a sale.
Favorite New York Sight: The sun rising over the east river is breathtaking!
Favorite New York Moment: My two children being born at New York Hospital!
What You Love About New York: The people are the most interesting because they are so diverse!
What You Hate About New York: The traffic!

Woman Around Town: Catherine Blomstrom—Carpenter

Sunday, June 21st, 2009 by Charlene Giannetti

Catherine Blomstrom

By Charlene Giannetti

Most women know how to hammer a nail into a wall. (OK, maybe not all women). Catherine Blomstrom’s skills go way beyond that one simple job. She designs beautifully crafted wood projects—built in wall shelves, cabinets, staircases, platform beds, media storage, bookcases, closets, mouldings, trims, countertops, you name it. And when she describes her involvement as “hands on,” she really means it. Working from her studio in Williamsburg, Blomstrom designs the projects, produces detailed drawings, and does all the carpentry herself.

That could be why, when we met for coffee at Three Guys on 96th Street, Blomstrom was enjoying a large fruit salad, her second lunch of the day. Slim, toned, and vibrating amazing energy, we began to understand the physicality of what she does and how she has to eat in order to work. “I work with power tools all day,” Blomstrom said, noting that the tools can be heavy and the work dusty and noisy. She wears earplugs and has a good dust collection system in her studio. “Girls are just more careful than boys,” she said, answering a question about workplace dangers. “We don’t play with our toys the way the boys do.”

Blomstrom grew up in Nebraska and those solid Midwestern values are woven throughout her life, from the way she approaches her work to her family ties and role as a single mother. Her family home was a working farm for producing corn and soybeans. “My dad had a shop and had to be able to work on equipment,” she said. As a child, Blomstrom said she would take things apart, never bothering to read the directions.

She graduated from the University of Nebraska, studying engineering and construction, then working as an engineer in public administration. Along with her parents, she  dappled in real estate, buying, restoring, and selling homes. She still owns a Victorian home in Lincoln that she renovated herself.

Making the decision to move to New York (her mother was originally from the Bronx and her parents met while undergraduates at NYU), Blomstrom received a graduate degree in structural engineering from Columbia University. “I decided to come to New York and the obvious graduate school choice was Columbia,” she said. “The city comes first, and then you make your life to suit that.”

Customer satisfaction is high on Blomstrom’s list. She works closely with each client, getting a good understanding of their expectations, and detailing everything on paper so that there are no misunderstandings or surprises. “I’m very clear about what I’m doing,” she said, noting that repeat clients and referrals make up much of her business.

She works with all kinds of wood and she can design to match existing décor and furniture. Although the economy has caused some people to put off work, Blomstrom is still busy. “New Yorkers will always have work they want done,” she said. “They want to have their homes organized.”

Larger projects are put together in her studio, taken apart, and then reassembled on site. She gives an installation time for each job, with frequent updates. Blomstrom is also licensed as a general contractor, although she often uses other G.C.’s on her jobs.

“I’m a carpenter,” said Blomstrom. “I don’t know if it gives an impression that I’m an artist or a union carpenter on a project.” Her work clothes are “the greatest distressed jeans ever,” that several clients have tried to buy from her.

Blomstrom has managed to structure a career that suits her talents and needs. She has two daughters (Alison, 16, and Claire, 11), and her flexible schedule allows her to meet both work and family demands. “It gives you a ton of freedom,” she said of her job, “although not as much freedom as you would think.” Still, she manages to make it to special days at her daughters’ schools. As she was influenced by her father, her daughters seem to be following that family tradition. Claire, Blomstrom, said laughing, “is a demon with a screw driver.”

Catherine Blomstrom’s website is www.cbcarpentry.com

Photo of Catherine by Tristan DeBoer

Woman Around Town’s Six Questions

Favorite Place to Eat: Sidewalk cafes of the Lower East Side or Brooklyn on a beautiful day.
Favorite Place to Shop: Vintage clothing and jewelry on Bedford Avenue.
Favorite New York Sight: A clear night from the Beekman Tower Hotel’s classic Deco cocktail lounge.
Favorite New York Moment: Finding the exact record in my mind on St. Marks Place after hours on a Saturday night, after the clubs, after a live blues set, before walking home with the Sunday Times—more than a moment but only New York.
What You Love About New York: Eccentric New Yorkers.
What You Hate About New York: Eccentric New Yorkers.

Frankies Spuntino: Authentic Italian on Clinton Street

Sunday, May 31st, 2009 by Charlene Giannetti

Frankies Sputino

Every now and then you wander into a restaurant in New York and feel transported to another country. That’s what happens when you enter Frankies Spuntino 17 on Clinton Street. Although located in the East Village (the other Frankies is in Brooklyn) we won’t fault you for thinking you are in Italy. Besides the rustic décor—brick walls, wooden tables, open kitchen—the food is Italian food at its best. The menu is unpretentious, using fresh ingredients in combinations that complement rather than overwhelm. For lunch, there are fresh salads using crisp greens and light dressings. For lunch there are many sandwiches, many including cured meats from Faicco’s known for its quality sausages and soppressata. Soups include lentil, minestrone, and escarole and canellini beans.

There are homemade pastas as well as specials like slow-roasted ribeye sliced cold, and pork braciole marinara. There are sweets for dessert, everything from red wine prunes with marscapone to chocolate tart. If you prefer, Frankies offers a large selection of cheeses. Don’t skip coffee. Both espresso and cappuccino will have you forgetting Starbucks.

Frankies wine list is extensive and your knowledgeable waiter will be more than happy to help with your selection. Service, in fact, is impeccable. Owners Frankie Falcinelli and Frankie Castronovo will make you feel like you have spent time dining in Italy. Without security checks and layovers. Perfect.

Frankies Spuntino 17
Type of food: Italian
17 Clinton Street
212-253-2303
www.frankiesspuntino.com

Romantic—4                              Child Friendly–2
Girls’ Night Out—4                   Solo Dining—3
Business Dining—2                  Visitors Welcome—4
Dress Code—Casual                  Budget—Moderate

The Noho Star—A Neighborhood Place for Everyone

Friday, March 20th, 2009 by Eleanor Foa Dienstag

Noho Star

By Eleanor Foa Dienstag

The Noho Star is my favorite neighborhood restaurant, even though it isn’t in my neighborhood. But whenever I go to a downtown movie, especially the Angelika on Houston St, or a downtown theatre, especially The Public, or shop in Soho or spend a few hours at The New Museum or meet friends from NYU, the Lower East Side or Brooklyn, I head for the Noho Star. It’s located near a number of major subway lines, including the Number 6 and F Trains, and sits just two short blocks north of Houston, at Bleecker and Lafayette Street.

Not an official New York Landmark, it’s been located at the same spot for 24 years—almost unheard of these days—and its clientele ranges from neighborhood artists, actors and painters (I’ve seen Chuck Close and John Lahr) to families of every age and income.  But basically, it’s just a friendly, low-key place to eat where you can talk all night and no one will try to hustle you out the door.  Just the other night, for example, while waiting for my martini (they make fabulous martinis), the husband of a couple sitting next to me, let out a big smile and said, out of the blue, “Isn’t this a great place? We’ve been coming here for years and just love it.” “Yes it is,” I replied. “I love it, too.”

Why is it so wonderful? For a number of reasons. First, because it’s reasonably-priced (though not cheap) “Eclectic American/Classic Chinese” menu suits all moods, all tastes, and most everyone’s purse.  Second, it’s open for breakfast, lunch and dinner, seven days a week, so you can bring your kids and grandkids here (they have an excellent brunch) or an out-of-towner (they always come back) or a date. Third, it’s comfy, cosy, casual, not too noisy and just quirky enough in its décor to give it a hip but not-too-hip feel. Fourth, it has a lovely little bar, where you can sip a drink, read a book, eat a meal or wait for a friend and no one will bother you. Fifth, the food is consistently delicious. Sixth, the menu contains a brilliantly “edited” choice of every New Yorker’s favorite foods.

You can eat simply or elegantly, modestly or expensively. Not very hungry? You can have Grilled Vegetables for $8.50 or a Tuna Club on Toasted Rye with Guacamole and Tomato for $11.50 or a Shrimp BLT with Basil Mayo on Toasted Rye (Double Smoked Bacon) for $13.25 or a charcoal-grilled Noho Burger with Cheddar, Bacon, Guacamole, Tomato and Watercress for $15.75. Or a simple omelette, salad or soup.

Ready for a major meal?  There are Weekly Specials which range from Steak Au Poivre with Roasted Corn Mashed Potatoes, $21.50, and Seared Sea Scallops with Pumpkin, Lobster and Baby Leeks, Chili-Lemon Vinaigrette, $22.50, to that old standby, Chicken-in-a-Pot, $17.50.

Though the menu is always evolving—for example, they just added Congee, a Chinese porridge to their Breakfast Menu, and a Lemon Poached Sea Bass with Roasted Fennel to their dinner—some dishes have been available since Day One, including Grilled Chicken with Lime and Coriander, $19.50, and Stir-Fried Sauteed Shrimp with Wok-Blackened Stringbeans, $19.50 (not to be missed).

Why the mix of American and Chinese foods? It seems that in 1985, when the owner, George Schwarz, opened Noho Star, (he also owns Temple Bar, next door, Elephant and Castle, and Keene’s Steak House),  “fusion” food was coming into fashion. He particularly enjoyed Wolfgang Puck’s menu at Chinoise on Main, in California, but decided that instead of “fusion,” he’d rather have classic Chinese dishes.  It’s an inspired combination.

But so are the array of other ethnic and taste options. On the Jewish-deli side, there’s bagel and smoked salmon; on the Mexican side, there’s Three Crisp Tortillas, Grilled Chicken Quesadilla and Vegetarian Mexican Salad; on the Italian side, there’s Spaghettini with goat Cheese, Arugola, Tomatoes, Black Olives and Capers, and my all time favorite, Crisp Calamari Salad (I’m totally addicted to it). All salads, by the way, are $17 and there are 11 of them. Throw in a touch of French, a touch of classic American, a touch of Viennese, and a separate menu of Noho Chinese Classics, including such great hits as Steamed Dumplings and Stir-Fried Whole Lobster with Ginger and Scallions, $20.50, and you get the picture.  If the problem is that your friend feels like a burger and your other friend feels like fish and you feel like a salad, the solution is Noho Star.

For those with a sweet tooth, the Dessert Menu, mostly old-fashioned American, is the best part. No matter what time of day or night, you can always see an old fashioned Hot Fudge Sundae or Indian Pudding or Carrot Cake or Panna Cotta or Nutella Crèpe or Murder by Chocolate float by.  Sometimes there are four spoons, sometimes one. It’s hard to pass up.

Noho Star is not quite the bargain it once was. Prices went up in 2008, and despite today’s recession, they are not going down. However, acutely conscious of everyone’s shrinking wallet, the restaurant is about to launch a new Supper Menu, from 10 p.m. to midnight. According to general manager Julia Lisowski, whose first job years ago was as a Noho Star bartender, “It will feature appetizers, drinks and entrees, for very reasonable prices.” When it’s launched, I’ll be the first one to try it out.

Now if only this quintessential New York hangout would open a branch in my neighborhood. But, hey, you can’t have everything.

The Noho Star
Type of Food: American with various other ethnic dishes
330 Lafayette Street
212-925-0070
www.nohostar.com

Romantic—3                              Child Friendly–4
Girls’ Night Out—4                   Solo Dining— 4
Business Dining—2                  Visitors Welcome—4
Dress Code— Casual                Budget—Moderate

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