When you have a niggling feeling that your husband may be up to no good with another woman, it can have a profound effect on you and your relationship. This is the type of thing that constantly goes around in your head and makes it difficult to think about anything else other than if he is seeing, flirting with, or sleeping with someone else.
If you find yourself in this situation, you need to try and take action before driving yourself insane with worry. There are various tools that you can use to get a better idea of whether or not he is cheating, which can help to put your mind at rest if he is not or take appropriate action if he is. Of course, even if you feel that he is cheating on you, unless you know this 100 percent this may not be the case. However, it doesn’t hurt to do a little research yourself because at the end of the day you deserve to know if he is.
Some of the tools that you can use
While you might feel guilty about sneaking around and trying to find things out, at the end of the day it is important that you find out one way or the other. If you are always left wondering, there will be no trust in the relationship anyway, which means that it is pretty much doomed. Of course, you could just ask him outright but if you think he will lie, what’s the point. What you can do is use some tools that could indicate whether or not he is cheating on you. This includes:
Checking who is calling him: If you have seen your husband slinking off somewhere to take calls in private, you are probably worried about who is calling and why he cannot speak to them in front of you. One tool you can use is a reverse phone lookup service, as this will enable you to determine who has been calling. If all of the ‘suspicious’ calls he has been getting are from the same number, you may have cause for concern.
Checking who he has messaged: If you husband tends to use Facebook a lot but doesn’t actually log out when he closes it, you should be able to access his account from the device that he uses. If you are able to, you can gain access to his Facebook account and take a look at the private messages to see if there are any suspicious messages to and from women on there. Many men do make the mistake of sending messages to other women and forgetting to log out of Facebook before closing it, which makes this another valuable tool.
Checking on texts: If you are able to get your hands on his mobile phone and there is no lock on it, you could check his texts to see if there have been messages being sent and received from another woman. Of course, if he has put a lock on it this is something that could be difficult but you could keep an eye out to see what PIN he enters when using it.
These are some of the key tools that could help you get the answers when it comes to whether or not your husband is cheating.